What Matters Most: Money, Fame, Success, or Being a Good Human?

It is a question that has puzzled many throughout the ages: among money, fame, success, and being a good human, which one should we prioritize? This article explores this topic and offers insights into why being a good human might be the most important aspect of our lives.

The Fallacy of Material Success

Let’s start with money, fame, and success. Many mistakenly believe that accumulating wealth, gaining social stature, and achieving professional or personal milestones will lead to happiness. However, the truth is that no matter how much money or fame one possesses, it is always perceived as 'less than' by others. This is because:

Money: No matter how much you accumulate, the desire for more is constant. Luxury and wealth are transient. Fame: Even if one has achieved widespread recognition, the public can never fully meet our expectations, as our own standards are often impossibly high. Success: Success is subjective and fleeting. It can change from day to day, and even within a day, our sense of success can fluctuate.

True Fulfillment Comes from Inner Peace

On the other hand, being a good human is a lifelong pursuit that brings true and enduring happiness. Making someone else happy is one of the greatest joys in life. It is fulfilling to know that we contribute positively to the world and to other people. When we focus on being good humans, we:

Elevate the spirits of others: By sharing our kindness, we can alleviate others' pain and bring joy to their lives. Build meaningful relationships: Our interactions with others become deeper and more fulfilling. Find inner peace: Self-satisfaction through good deeds and actions brings true happiness that cannot be taken away by external factors.

Balancing Personal Goals and Fulfillment

While money, fame, and success can certainly enhance our lives, they often come at the expense of genuine happiness and personal fulfillment. Just consider the tragic case of Sushant Singh Rajput. He seemed to have it all – money, fame, success, and even a loving relationship – yet he died young because he was not truly happy. His story underscores the fact that material gains alone cannot guarantee a fulfilling and content life.

The Hierarchy of Values

So, what is the correct order of values? In the author's opinion, the following hierarchy is ideal:

Being a Good Human: It is the foundation upon which all other values rest. When we are good humans, we are happier, kinder, and more content. Success: Success is a natural outcome of being a good human. True success is measured by our personal growth and the positive impact we have on others. Money: While money can provide comfort and security, it should not be the primary goal. Success often leads to financial stability, so focusing on success is a step toward having enough money. Fame: Fame can be a natural consequence of success, but it should not be the ultimate pursuit. If one desires fame, success will often lead to it.

Conclusion

Ultimately, the goal should be happiness and personal fulfillment rather than material success. By focusing on being a good human, we can create a life that is truly fulfilling and joyful. While money, fame, and success can be beneficial, they should not come at the expense of our happiness and well-being. A life that prioritizes being a good human is a life well-lived.

Thank you for reading this article, and I hope it provides you with some insights into what truly matters in life.