The Worst Things I’ve Caught My Babysitters Doing

Babysitters are there to ensure our children's safety and happiness, but what if they start acting inappropriately? In this article, I will share three heartbreaking and shocking stories from my childhood involving babysitters who acted unethically.

Keeping Secrets

One story stands out in my mind from when I was ten years old. This babysitter was a general snoop and always found herself peeking around, but the real issue came to light one evening when I followed her to the kitchen. I noticed her taking $5 from my mom’s rainy day fund and slipping it into her pocket. It was a moment frozen in time, and I never told anyone, not even when I wrote a letter to my mom explaining the situation. The babysitter never returned the money, but my mom decided not to pay her.

Sexual Misdemeanor

A friend of mine had an even worse experience. One night, upon returning home from work, he discovered his babysitter in the act with her boyfriend, lying naked in bed. Their clothes were scattered all over the room, and he could see they were cuddled together. This went against every ethical and moral boundary. My friend kicked them both out, making them leave without even putting on their clothes, wearing just their undergarments. The next day, both the babysitter and the boyfriend came to his door to apologize. However, my friend refused to accept their apology and their request for payment, due to the breach of trust and ethical line they had crossed.

The Tragic Incident

When I was seven or six (depending on the source), my mom took a night out with a friend for a girls' night. We didn’t have a babysitter, so she asked the son of a friend (around his teenage years) to watch us. This time, he was more than just a babysitter. When I was sleeping, I felt something heavy on me and it woke me up. It was the guy on top of me, pulling down my pajamas and trying to penetrate my ass. He was so heavy that I couldn’t breathe, so I tried to tell him to stop, but he kept going.

I stayed like that for what seemed like forever, crying and begging him to get off. Finally, he stopped and left. I lay there, pretending to be asleep, until I heard my mom come in. She thanked him for watching us, paid him, and he left. When she came back to the house, I told her what happened. My mom, a healthy, strong woman, was upset but managed to keep her calm. We got in the car, and she drove to the babysitter's house, warning him not to come back. My mom’s words were a promise of retribution, and it was evident that she would not hesitate to follow through with her threats.

That night, my mom’s calmness and action taught me a lesson about the importance of trust and the consequences of breaking it.

Conclusion

These stories serve as a stark reminder of the trust we place in babysitters and the potential for such experiences to cause lasting psychological harm. As responsible parents, it is crucial to handle such situations with empathy and urgency. Choosing the right babysitter and addressing any issues promptly can help safeguard our children's well-being.

For parents and guardians, it is essential to:

Choose reputable and trustworthy childcare providers. Communicate openly about expectations and boundaries. Trust your instincts and address any concerns immediately.

With careful attention and prioritizing our children's safety, we can protect them from such experiences and ensure they grow up with love, care, and integrity.

Remember, you are not alone. Sharing these experiences can help others protect themselves and their children.