The Illogical Pursuits: How Habits and Beliefs Shape Our Behavior

Today, we explore some common yet illogical behaviors that many of us might recognize from our own lives. Join us as we delve into the mindset and habits that can sometimes confound our logical understanding of the world. Whether it's continuing a time-study habit, debating online without expecting change, or driving manners, our illogical habits can often elude rational explanation.

The Time-Testing Conundrum

Imagine this familiar scenario: You're highly motivated to study by adhering to a strict schedule. Despite this, your actual study times are severely disrupted. Look no further than this familiar pattern:

Me fully motivated to study, I plan my session. Me checks the clock, sees that it's 11:50, and decides to wait until 12 to start. Then, a casual check later shows the time has moved to 12:50. Now, I can't study because it's not the precise time. After all, it's already 12:50, and I must wait until 12:30 to have some fun...

This irrational behavior can be frustrating, but it's also a common human experience. The struggle with following plans, especially in the face of unexpected disruptions, is a challenge we all face. The key is to find a balance between structure and flexibility.

The Art of Online Debates

Another absurd behavior is engaging in heated online debates, convinced that through logic and reasoning, we can sway the minds of others. As anyone who has debated online can attest, persuasion might not always be the goal. Instead, there's a satisfying psychological reward in proving one's arguments, even if the other party remains unchanged.

Despite knowing that debate participants might not change their views, I am compelled to test my theories and abilities. For example, I recently developed a method to prevent people from backing out of arguments, which I call the 'Lock a Bitch Out' technique. I have also created a unique alter ego, 'The Angel,' to aid in these conversations.

The mental validation derived from these debates can be powerful, but it's important to recognize the limits of such engagements. Winnings and recognition in the online debate arena are mostly for oneself, rather than for changing someone else's mind.

Lending a Hand When Needed Least

Yet another illogical pursuit is the belief that we can positively impact others' lives despite a lack of effort from them. This belief is a personal mission, not just an obligation but a duty, particularly in situations where others are desperate for help and yet reject our assistance.

Believing in my ability to help others, I refuse to give up on someone in a state of great need, even if they outright reject my offer. I reflect back to a time when a stranger reached out to me in my darkest moments, and this experience fueled a deep-seated belief in my own potential to make a positive difference.

This belief, though illogical, is a source of strength and resilience. However, it's crucial to approach such situations with realistic expectations and self-awareness. Understanding the limits of our influence and the role of other factors (such as external support systems) can prevent unnecessary frustration and burnout.

Driving Manners and Personalization

Lastly, driving can be a fertile ground for illogical habits, such as talking to other drivers as if they can hear us, addressing them in a manner that could be considered confrontational. This might include statements like 'Hey buddy are you just gonna sit there?' or 'What the hell!!' when someone runs a red light.

Although there are debates about the efficacy of these outbursts, the mere act of talking to other drivers seems to offer a sense of empowerment and control on the road. It's a form of self-expression and a way to take charge of a chaotic environment.

The illogical nature of these interactions often serves a psychological function rather than an actual safety or effectiveness purpose. It's a release of tension and a way to assert oneself in a stressful situation.

Conclusion: Embracing the Illogical

While our illogical habits and beliefs may seem incongruous or even detrimental at times, they often serve as important psychological functions. Whether it's the pursuit of online debate victories, lending a helping hand, or the act of annoying other drivers, these behaviors are deeply ingrained in our lives for a reason. Understanding and accepting them can lead to better self-awareness and personal growth.