Requesting a Letter of Recommendation from a Former Teacher: Tips and Considerations

As you prepare for college applications, one critical component often overlooked is the letter of recommendation. Typically, this comes from your current teachers and professors. But what if you need one from a former teacher who is now teaching at a university like Penn? Here’s a guide to help you navigate this situation.

Preliminary Considerations

Before you reach out to your former teacher, ask yourself a few key questions:

What impression did I make in that class? What kind of student were I? Does the teacher still remember me? Can they provide specific examples to illustrate their recommendation?

Some schools restrict teachers from refusing requests for recommendation letters, while others allow them to be honest if they choose to do so. If the teacher is constrained and agrees to write a negative letter, then it might not be the best idea to ask. However, if they are free to be honest and consider whether another teacher might know you better, then it could still be worthwhile.

Providing Necessary Information

Regardless of the outcome, provide your former teacher with a resume or CV and your essays if applicable. This will help your former teacher better understand who you are, which can improve their opinion of you. It also ensures they have all the necessary information to craft a compelling recommendation.

Considering an Alternative

If you feel you cannot trust the teacher, it might be better to find someone else to write the letter. Most teachers prefer to write a letter only when you have signed away your rights to see it. If you’re hesitant, consider these alternatives:

Current teachers and professors who have worked closely with you. Guidance counselors or administrators at your high school. Supervisors from summer camps or internships.

Experiences and Insights

Some may have had success asking a former teacher for a recommendation. Take, for example, a high school student who requested a letter from a teacher now teaching at Penn:

"I did that and was very happy with the response I received. If you had a decent relationship with the teacher and they saw you at least trying to do well, you should be okay. Don’t shoot the messenger."

Another student shared a more nuanced experience:

"I asked a teacher for a letter of recommendation once. The answer I received was: 'I’ll be happy to write you a letter of reference. Whether it will be a recommendation or not is up to me to decide.' This answer was initially surprising but it made sense. You as the recipient are not entitled to read the letter. Provide the sender with a stamped envelope addressed to the admissions office of your school and a form if provided. A thoughtful reference letter might include some reservations about you, which could actually help your application, but don’t read it.

Summary and Final Tips

Requesting a letter of recommendation from a former teacher can be a valuable addition to your college application. Prepare by considering the teacher’s current situation, providing necessary information, and being open to alternatives. Remember, the goal is to present a well-rounded and authentic picture of yourself to admissions officers. Good luck with your applications!