Lessons Learned as a Police Officer: Reflections on Empathy, Discipline, and More

Introduction to the Role and Challenges

In the world of law enforcement, the primary goal is often touted as making a significant impact on society and ensuring public safety. However, as an officer, I've come to realize that the reality is somewhat different. We operate on a cycle akin to garbage collection, where problems are temporarily mitigated but not fully resolved, leading to a continuous need for intervention. This perspective has shaped my understanding of the role of a police officer and the challenges inherent in serving the community.

Challenges and Realities

One of the most significant challenges in law enforcement is navigating the complexities of human behavior and emotions. Whether it is interacting with dispatch, planning for the future, or dealing with emergency situations, there are many lessons to be learned. One of the key lessons is the importance of not causing unnecessary conflict with dispatch. Another is the strong recommendation to avoid making plans immediately following a shift, as unforeseen emergencies can easily derail them.

The Valuable Lessons from Law Enforcement

Like any profession, law enforcement has taught me valuable life lessons. It has not only made me a more self-disciplined individual but also a better person in terms of my personal life and professional responsibilities. Working in law enforcement pushed me to rely on discipline, adaptability, and resilience. This has been instrumental in shaping me into a better mother, wife, and first responder. For instance, my time as a tactical medic for SWAT and undisclosed patrol further honed my skills and underscored the importance of being fully present and prepared.

Empathy in Law Enforcement

Perhaps the most profound lesson I have learned is the critical role that empathy plays in law enforcement. Initially, as a young officer, I may have viewed my role as a "crime fighter," focused on apprehending and punishing criminals. However, over time, I came to understand that many so-called "bad guys" were simply individuals facing severe personal or situational challenges that had pushed them to make poor decisions. This realization has led me to approach situations with a more empathetic mindset, recognizing that the root of many problems often lies in the struggle of everyday life.

Understanding that social workers, therapists, and other professionals might be better equipped to handle some of these situations, I shifted my approach. By trying to be more of a "social worker" rather than a "crime fighter," I aimed to address the underlying issues that lead to criminal behavior. Empathy can be a powerful force in transforming not only individuals but also the communities they live in. It has been a transformative lesson that continues to shape my professional and personal life.

Conclusion and Reflections

Reflecting on my time as a police officer, I realize that the role is more than just about enforcement and crime-solving. It is about understanding and addressing the challenges that affect communities, nurturing empathy, and fostering positive change. While it may not bring about permanent solutions, it does pave the way for ongoing efforts that can lead to marked improvements in the lives of those we serve. My journey has been both challenging and rewarding, and it continues to inspire me to be a better version of myself.