From England to America: A Cultural Shift and Personal Insights

Have you ever lived or worked outside of the US? If so, which country did you choose, and what was your reason for choosing it?

My journey to the United States began not as a conscious choice, but rather when the U.S. Air Force assigned me to Morocco for one year. This experience sparked a profound passion for world travel, which led me to visit all seven continents and 134 countries. However, my roots lie in America—where I was born—and I was fortunate enough to have spent my formative years in England.

I was only five years old when I moved to England, and I was raised there until I was 32. The British system felt like the norm for me, and I had to learn to adapt to the American system after moving back to the U.S. at the age of 32, even after 26 years of living in America. Adjusting to the American way of life has been a work in progress for me.

American vs. British Culture

Although I am now deeply rooted in American culture, there are significant differences between the two that stand out to me. The U.S. has a strong German influence, distinct from the British culture, which is prevalent in the American approach to the law. Americans tend to adhere more strictly to the letter of the law rather than understanding the underlying principles. This can often result in unexpected legal hurdles. For example, it can be illegal to cross the street outside a crosswalk, parking on the wrong side of the road can result in a fine, and even reversing into a parking space can lead to a ticket. These laws might seem overly strict in a country like Britain, where a more relaxed understanding of the law's intent is more common.

Another notable difference in American culture is a prevalent attitude of "I want mine." This mindset often manifests in the rejection of public goods and services, such as public education and healthcare, which are considered essential in many European systems. The argument that these are luxuries that should be paid for rather than funded as resources for everyone is rooted in this philosophy. For instance, the failure of public education in the U.S. can be partially attributed to this mindset, as can the resistance to universal healthcare, which many Americans view as too costly and unnecessary.

Challenges and Adaptations

While the U.S. offers many wonderful things, including a rich diversity and a vibrant culture, it can be a significant culture shock, especially compared to a more European philosophy. While Germany is often considered more European than the U.K., the German influence in the U.S. is primarily reflected in the strict adherence to the letter of the law, which can sometimes feel overly bureaucratic and inflexible.

Living in the U.S. has taught me the importance of adaptability and cultural sensitivity. The blend of cultural influences in the U.S. creates a unique environment that can be both challenging and rewarding. It’s important to embrace the differences and find a balance that works for each individual.

Conclusion

My experiences in both the U.S. and England have provided me with a unique perspective on cultural differences. Understanding these disparities can help in navigating the complexities of life in a globalized world. Whether you choose to live in the U.S. or another country, it’s crucial to approach these experiences with an open mind and a willingness to learn and adapt.