Essential Advice for Navigating a Strong and Healthy Relationship

This is such a great question! I’m so proud of you for asking. In life and relationships, it’s important to prioritize your happiness and well-being. Here are some key pieces of advice that can help you build a strong and healthy relationship:

Communication and Trust

Effective communication is the cornerstone of a successful relationship. Be with someone who understands both your physical and emotional needs. Engaging in each other's sexual and fantasy desires can bring you closer and create a deeper connection. It's important to communicate openly and honestly about your desires, boundaries, and expectations.

Firstly, be the best friend you can be. Talk to each other about anything and everything. Keep your problems between yourselves and avoid sharing them on social media or with third parties, especially your parents. Social media can sometimes create unnecessary tension and misunderstandings.

Secondly, involve your parents only when necessary and keep them informed about significant decisions. Trust is crucial, and judging each other can erode this trust. When you do have disagreements, approach them calmly and try to understand each other's perspectives. Equal parenting, regardless of who earns more, is also essential. Both partners should share the responsibilities, ensuring a fair division of labor.

Commitment and Self-Worth

If you believe this relationship is worth it, give it your all. Communicate, listen, love, and support each other. Forgiveness, personal growth, and thriving together are key components of a fulfilling relationship. However, if this relationship starts to cost you your self-worth, dignity, or sanity, be prepared to walk away.

Take care of yourself and your heart. Self-love and self-care are significant in maintaining a healthy relationship. Recognize that your personal well-being and happiness are essential. You deserve to be treated with respect and appreciation. Never stay in a situation where you’re not respected, valued, or treated as a partner.

Putting Love into Action

The number one rule I share with everyone is to always speak the truth with love and respect—even if it’s uncomfortable. Use “I statements” to express what you’re feeling or needing: “When ______ happens, it makes me feel like _____.” “When I heard what you said _______, I felt like ____. Can you help me understand what you meant so I can make sure I’m tracking with you?”

The second most crucial piece of advice I can give is never to allow yourself to stay in a situation where you’re not respected, valued, or treated as a partner. Never compromise your faith, passions, or yourself for the sake of a relationship. Our significant others should complement us, not complete us or the other way around. Stay true to your values and what’s important to you and never let anyone make you feel like you don’t have a voice.

Remember, the world is vast with trillions of people. The odds are in your favor that someone will treat you as the powerful, kind, and smart person you are! So, continue to seek out the right match for you, and be open to new opportunities.

Lastly, remember to find and enjoy your purpose in life. Product yourself. Enjoy yourself. Remember that life is short and goes by fast. Be grateful, cherish the time you have, and make the most of every moment.

God put you here on purpose for a purpose, and that’s where the joy is in both your life and your life with your mate. Embrace it and make every day count.