Did Not Attending College Drag You Down? A Personal Reflection

For people who did not go to college, do you ever regret not pursuing a degree? I have had a fulfilling life with a lot of adventures, but there are moments when I wish I had chosen a more traditional path by attending college.

Early Aspirations and Harsh Reality

During high school, I was an honors student, excelling in advanced and AP courses. As a teenager, my dream was to become a radiologist. The prospect of a meaningful career filled with purpose and potentially lucrative earnings was attractive. However, the harsh reality of my upbringing has often caused me to contemplate those missed opportunities.

Abusive Environment and Financial Struggle

I grew up with an abusive mother and step-father, which had a profound impact on my early life. At just 13, I was kicked out of the house. Eventually, at 18, I was fully on my own without any job, money, car, or life skills. My ability to attend college was complicated by my family's financial resources and their refusal to provide assistance.

Financial Aid and Family Contribution

As a senior, I had applied to a few in-state universities but was unable to receive financial aid due to my parents’ refusal to complete the Free Application for Federal Student Aid (FAFSA). Even if I could have completed it, the financial aid offered would have been minimal due to my parents' considerable income. My mother and step-father, who earned a combined annual income of $90,000, did not see my education as a priority. My father, who became incredibly wealthy and lived lavishly, also refused to help.

Self-Education and Career Battles

I worked dead-end jobs during my late teens and early twenties, struggling to support myself on minimum wage. By my twenties, my financial situation began to improve, but I faced challenges in landing high-paying jobs due to lack of a college degree. I acquired knowledge through self-education, which allowed me to secure positions that required specific skills. Today, I prefer working in positions I find either tolerable or fun, focusing on my well-being and happiness over career advancement.

College on the Margins

Despite my previous experience, I did attend a community college a few years ago to earn an Associate's Degree. This time, I funded my studies through tuition reimbursement from an employer. However, my current view on furthering my education has shifted. Having been "screwed" by the college system, I am now wary of pursuing a Bachelor's Degree.

Conclusion and Personal Philosophy

Reflecting on my journey, I have come to the conclusion that the time and effort I spent on high school studies were perhaps not worth it. I now believe that fun and self-education are more important than traditional academic paths. My current approach to work and life is centered around enjoyment and flexibility, with a focus on self-improvement through ongoing education and a small side business. College may indeed be a scam to the individuals who do not believe in its value.