A Christian Man's Perspective on Women: Respecting and Appreciating

As a Christian man, how I should look at women, particularly those not from my own family, plays a significant role in my daily life and interactions. Unless it is my wife, I should not gaze upon another woman if such a look is luring or lustful. This guideline isn't just about avoiding inappropriate behavior but fostering a respectful and dignified interaction based on love and respect.

Respecting Women as Sisters

When it comes to looking at women other than my wife, I treat them with the same respect I give to my sisters, my daughters, or the women who have influenced and shaped my life. One look is alright—given that we are human and may catch a glimpse that we can't control. However, three looks become perilous because we can't control what we see, and it's essential to be careful and avoid any possibilities of lust.

Men are designed to find women attractive. Our bodies react instinctively, which is a natural process that doesn't require any action on our part. For example, when Adam saw Eve, he exclaimed 'Wow... that’s more like it.' This reaction is a part of being human and is a natural bodily response. Jesus Himself taught in the New Testament – 'But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.'

Evolution of Appreciation

My perception and appreciation of women have evolved over time, much like how my taste for different flavors of sweets matured. As a young adolescent, my views on women were largely based on their physical attributes. However, as I matured, my appreciation extended to their character, intelligence, and the role they played in my life. My first experiences of fallen in love transformed my perspective on women, making me realize that their beauty lies beyond their physical attributes. My wife's love and my experiences with other women, including mothers, sisters, and role models, have deepened my esteem for women.

The introduction of my first child fundamentally changed my view on motherhood. I began to see women as sources of strength and love, rather than sources of oppression or frustration. When my daughter was born, I came to care about women simply for being women, free from the pressures and expectations that plagued my adolescent years.

Community and Faith

My religious faith intertwines with my community, where I have formed numerous relationships with women. Whether as mothers, wives, scholars, partners, role models, or even those in leadership roles, these women have a profound impact on my life and values. As I see women of different ages, I imagine them as granddaughters, daughters, or sisters, and consider their role in the future of their children. When I see a woman around my age, I see strength, wisdom, and love, as a sister who is greatly important to many people. An old woman is seen as deserving of immense respect, prompting me to offer small acts of service whenever possible.

From the perspective of a Christian man, women are individuals who the world revolves around. They are important, loved, and respected. My view of women is not just about physical attraction but appreciation for their roles and their impact on the world around them.

Conclusion

When a Christian man looks at a woman, he does so with a heart filled with respect and admiration. He sees them not just as potential partners but as sisters, daughters, and mothers who hold the strength and wisdom of the world. This perspective helps in maintaining a healthy and respectful interaction, rooted in a deeper understanding and appreciation of women.